khawf_khashya_diff_en.mp3

The difference between Khawf and Khashya of Allah عز وجل 

Recommended things for a pregnant wife so that the child becomes righteous and pious

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته 

The parents should strive to be upright , pious and righteous themselves in the first place as how Allah عز وجل said : { وَٱلَّذِینَ جَـٰهَدُوا۟ فِینَا لَنَهۡدِیَنَّهُمۡ سُبُلَنَاۚ وَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَمَعَ ٱلۡمُحۡسِنِینَ } "  As for those who strive hard in Us (Our Cause), We will surely guide them to Our Paths (i.e. Allah's Religion - Islamic Monotheism). And verily, Allah is with the Muhsinun (good doers). 

Then do a lot of Dua and do a lot of listening to the Qur’an at home , especially Surat Al-Baqarah , and recite it as well.  Maintain and stick to the remembrances of the morning and evening ( أذكار الصباح والمساء ) and have a good hope on Allah عز وجل as how Allah عز وجل said {  وَلَا تَا۟یۡـَٔسُوا۟ مِن رَّوۡحِ ٱللَّهِۖ إِنَّهُۥ لَا یَا۟یۡـَٔسُ مِن رَّوۡحِ ٱللَّهِ إِلَّا ٱلۡقَوۡمُ ٱلۡكَـٰفِرُونَ } " and never give up hope of Allah's Mercy. Certainly no one despairs of Allah's Mercy, except the people who disbelieve."

And Allah عز وجل knows best . 


dua_laylathul_qadr_en.mp3

A general principle regarding the supplications that came in the Quran and Sunnah

sadaqa_for_dead_en.mp3

Giving Sadaqa on behalf of the dead

True knowledge based on justice and fairness will never yield anything but good

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
 
This is a wrong advise regarding this problem  and it is a very dangerous advice for an individual and for the society as well, because it generalizes that which is supposed explained in detail and so it will plunge you into falsehood from where you realise it not. 

Yes extremism , fanaticism and blind following are among the causes of mental disturbance and spiritual anxiety , because they will give rise to unanswerable questions and confusions and contradictions in one's way and methodology not to mention that which surrounds these destructive intellectual ideologies from intellectual terrorism . 

However , true knowledge based on justice , fairness , and giving everyone and everything its due right , nothing rises out of it except peace of mind , expansiveness of heart , steadfastness upon the truth and being content with it. This is why Allah عز وجل has ordered us to learn from the scholars who act with justice and fairness and that is when He mentioned   their testimony for His Oneness along with His own testimony for His Oneness and He called them as the ones having knowledge along with justice  شَهِدَ اللّهُ أَنَّهُ لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ هُوَ وَالْمَلاَئِكَةُ وَأُوْلُواْ الْعِلْمِ قَآئِمَاً بِالْقِسْطِ لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ هُوَ الْعَزِيزُ الْحَكِيمُ  Allah bears witness that La ilaha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), and the angels, and those having knowledge (also give this witness);  maintaining His creation in Justice. 

Also Allah عز وجل forbade from sitting with those who are known for confusions , contradictions , ignorance and alienation from the truth for the sake of achieving world objectives such as fame , money , followers etc. like when he censures Bala'am bin Ba’awra or Ibn Aber :

(وَاتْلُ عَلَيْهِمْ نَبَأَ الَّذِي آتَيْنَاهُ آيَاتِنَا فَانْسَلَخَ مِنْهَا فَأَتْبَعَهُ الشَّيْطَانُ فَكَانَ مِنَ الْغَاوِينَ , وَلَوْ شِئْنَا لَرَفَعْنَاهُ بِهَا وَلَكِنَّهُ أَخْلَدَ إِلَى الْأَرْضِ وَاتَّبَعَ هَوَاهُ فَمَثَلُهُ كَمَثَلِ الْكَلْبِ إِنْ تَحْمِلْ عَلَيْهِ يَلْهَثْ أَوْ تَتْرُكْهُ يَلْهَثْ ذَلِكَ مَثَلُ الْقَوْمِ الَّذِينَ كَذَّبُوا بِآيَاتِنَا فَاقْصُصِ الْقَصَصَ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ ) 

And recite (O Muhammad SAW) to them the story of him to whom We gave Our Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.), but he threw them away, so Shaitan (Satan) followed him up, and he became of those who went astray.
And had We willed, We would surely have elevated him therewith but he clung to the earth and followed his own vain desire. So his description is the description of a dog: if you drive him away, he lolls his tongue out, or if you leave him alone, he (still) lolls his tongue out.
Such is the description of the people who reject Our Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.). So relate the stories, perhaps they may reflect.

So you have to take the authentic knowledge from the authentic people , so through them you will receive the healing for the heart and reassurance for the soul and you should not sit with those who have a lot of contradictions and confusions in knowledge and action. The truth is clear , apparent  and easy to be acted upon , and falsehood is dark , turbulent , and convulsive. 
Therefore searching for guidance and calmness of the heart can only be achieved by searching for the truth that are free from confusions and contradictions.  

tawakkul_and_anxieties_en.mp3

How to get rid of anxieities and increase Tawakkul

fear_and_hope_en.mp3

The true Muslim is between fear and hope

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