Considering multiple persons for marriage at the same time
December 18th 2021
Question ID : 61bdfb02df295773ab4e90c9
Question
Is it permissible that my Wali talks with a couple of brothers (for example two to three brothers for marriage) at the same time? The brothers showed interest so my Wali is going to talk to them and their families and get to know them and delay the marriage meeting until by the Mercy of Allah the Covid 19 situation calms down in UK. I am interested in one good brother among them, so if he accepts to go forward after the marriage meeting, then we are going to reject the other brothers. But in case he rejects me I will have back up plans as the other brothers are also good. Also should I inform the brothers who are not my first choice that I may or may not accept to have a marriage meeting with them as I have a brother that I am interested in and if he accepts I'm going to reject them?